saved my life

just a waffle falling over.

i do not know why this is the funniest-best thing i've seen in ages, but it is. last night i watched it, i think, 12 times in a row. and laughed my face off every time. no one knows why. (scientists might know why... peter? dad?)



happy monday, gravity.

off and back.

i spent years feeling unsettled... always working towards a something. i don't remember when it started exactly. university? just after? i am not sure. it seems like forever ago. there was always a something. tomorrow, tomorrow, tomorrow... forever waiting to be living completely.

(probably it is a 20s something. feeling like you are preparing for being a whole thing. (almost out of those. 20s...))

anyways. i wasn't, anymore, for a little while. just for a few months. all of the things stopped being somewhere else and were just being. i loved all of the things right here and right now. i was present and happy and good. job life home friends love city. it's not that before i was unhappy. just not there.

and then: there.

still looking forward and excited and wondering and nervous... but there. here... present.

and now. not, again. waiting. looking. and it is harder to go backwards. it turns out. than to feel behind in the first place. i am sick of looking forward. making choices for then instead of now. i would like to just be here.

i was very happy and very here.

an unexpected...

of all of the problems that i thought might come up for me watching football, i did not anticipate the fashion-shopping-problem part of me to be activated... damn it, football.

{never thought i'd post a football coach on here, but yeah, whatever, i borrowed him from here}

but, lo. now all i can think about is getting a grey hoodie and cutting the sleeves off. ugh. thanks a lot, danny.